Creating a Mental Wellness Routine That Works for Your Lifestyle
Your mental wellness routine doesn't always need to look like anyone else's. It just needs to fit into your life as it actually is.
Work With the Day You Already Have
You're busy. We all are. But there are these little gaps in your day that you're probably not thinking about:
Those twenty minutes in the morning before everyone else gets up
Your commute
Lunch breaks that you usually spend scrolling
The transition time between work and home
Right before bed when you're winding down
You don't need to carve out new time. Just look at what's already there and see where something could fit.
Go Way Smaller Than Feels Worth It
This is where most people mess up. You get excited about feeling better, so you plan this whole elaborate thing: morning pages, daily meditation, meal prep, gym time, and therapy.
Within days, it falls apart.
Here's what actually works:
One five-minute walk
Three sentences in a journal
Taking your meds at the same time each day
One full glass of water when you wake up
Two minutes of mindful breathing when you're stressed
Pick one. Just one. Do it until you don't have to think about it anymore. Then maybe add another.
Know When Your Brain Actually Works
Some people wake up clearheaded and ready to think. Others don’t. There's no point fighting against how you're wired.
Morning person? Use that early energy before the day gets complicated. Night owl? Save your routine for evening when you finally feel like yourself. Afternoon surge? That's your window.
The best time for your routine is whenever you'll actually do it.
Plan for the Bad Days
There will be days when everything feels too hard. Maybe you’re adjusting to new medication. Maybe you didn’t sleep. Maybe life is just being life.
Your regular routine won't happen and that’s okay.
Keep a version ready:
Full routine: Thirty-minute walk outside
Hard day: Walk to the mailbox and back
Full routine: Journal for fifteen minutes
Hard day: Write down one word for how you feel
The tiny version still connects you to the habit. On rough days, that's enough.
Actually Notice If It's Helping
After a couple of weeks, check in with yourself honestly. Is this making things better? Not perfect, but better?
Questions worth asking:
Are you sleeping any differently?
Does your mood feel more stable?
Are you forgetting your medication less often?
Can you handle stress slightly better than before?
If something's not helping, drop it. You're not failing by changing what doesn't work. You're just figuring out what does.
Related: Living Your Best Life with the Right Treatment Support
Know When You Need More Support
At Serenity Health, we give people psychiatric care and medication management because sometimes you need somebody who knows what they’re doing to help you through this.
Let’s see what’s really going on with you specifically, and figure out what’s really going to help: getting your meds right, building better coping strategies, or working through both together.
If you’re struggling and just ready to stop trying to handle it on your own, give us a call at Serenity Health!
We’ll sit down with you and come up with a plan that makes sense for your life.
FAQs
How soon until this starts feeling automatic?
Most of the time, it’s three to four weeks of consistency. Go easy on yourself. Some habits just take longer; that’s normal.
Would a routine matter if I were on medication for my mental health?
Yes. Your routine supports your treatment by offering structure and keeping you consistent with the meds.